Dear Kissy,
A few months ago I met this guy named JC. He is really cute, smart, and has a great sense of humor. We have great chemistry and he has become one of my best friends.
Before we had sex, he would talk a lot of stuff about how wonderful he is in bed. Well, a few weeks ago we finally had sex and it was really bad. Have you are any of your readers been in a situation like this? Would you stop talking to him?
Victim of Some Whack D
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Dear Victim of Some Whack D,
He sounds like the perfect guy with a bad stick. Yes, you should get rid of this man effective immediately would usually be my first response. But you state that this man is your best friend. You can’t get rid of your best friend over bad sex can you?
Is he your best friend or is he someone who appeared to be your best friend to soften you up and get into your pants?
I’m sure the majority of women agree that a man who is about business in the bedroom doesn’t talk about it.. He instead makes you feel it. He makes you crave it with his body language and the things he does to you.
In most cases when a man finds it necessary to speak upon his sexual performance before the act actually occurs is doing so because in many ways he feels he lacks in that area and really does not have much to offer you. He feels that by getting into your pants he will somehow get you hooked with his bad performance.
It’s been going on for decades. You think by now they would stop. It’s best to not even waste your time with men like this and you have all rights to be utterly disgusted by his whack performance.
Let him go as a friend? NO Should you start a relationship with him? Absolutely not.
Sexual chemistry is very important. No matter how nice or good looking and smart he is eventually the bad sex will start to wear on the relationship. Besides, there is no telling how many other lies and disappointments he will bring you.
Kissy
What do you think - Should I woman continue with a man who claimed to be able to put the D down but came up short?
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Wow thats funny lol
Hahahaha……Yeah..
That’s problem….talking about it. They all talk a good game. Put up or shut up….
And I would tell Him how raggedy it was too..LOL..
No no noooooo!!!!
NOPE…HE LIED!!!
How about NO! If it was the other way around he wouldn’t keep talking to her *shrugs shoulders*
if he can compensate in any way that makes u feel sooo good whether his tongue toys however he does it then he can throw in a few undesirable pumps lls if not keep it moving
Hell No! i sure didnt & let him know that was the reason. there is no sense in Lying 2 a man or woman if they dont handle their Bizness in the bed.
Depends on if its her fault them guts might need tightning
Chile nawl…but i stuck around for a few years pockets was deep…ijs
-n my martin payne voice Hell no!
Carrie I jus couldn’t tell em….lol.
Been There, Done That & Had To Put Him In The Friend Category. He Didn’t Like It, But Don’t BRAG When You Can’t F**k Like You Talk…
Absolutey not!! That’s a turn off for me and I will say it Loudly Lbvs
let him go!! If he can’t satisfy you in places where it needs to be satisfy…you won’t be happy!! More like being cranky all day…EVERYDAY! Hell you may end up cheating..we all need that TOUCH!
Nope! He should not have been lying.
I’m a firm believer that a true swordsmen never brags or boast, he let’s his talent speak for him.
Im wit Brian
i am with brian on that.. neva brag on ur stick, see love making is an art your should let your stick show the love faces on her. then they be priceless lol
NOOOOOOOOO
Guys know when they got good D. Cuz you women answer the phone at 3 in the morn when he calls
Eric Cee ~ Sleep With The Phone On Our Ear… LOL
Eric Cee ~ Sleep With The Phone On Our Ear… LOL
Wow
Gotts to go!!
I can only agree that we do get COCKY at times, now if something was NOT correct, oh well…11-14-11
bounce yo
S*x doesn’t make a man. Look inside the person and find out if he’s a match before taking a decision.
A true cocksman needs not to Bragg.