A few months ago I met this guy named JC. He is really cute, smart, and has a great sense of humor. We have great chemistry and he has become one of my best friends.
Before we had sex, he would talk a lot of stuff about how wonderful he is in bed. Well, a few weeks ago we finally had sex and it was really bad. Have you are any of your readers been in a situation like this? Would you stop talking to him?
Victim of Some Whack D
Dear Victim of Some Whack D,
He sounds like the perfect guy with a bad stick. Yes, you should get rid of this man effective immediately would usually be my first response. But you state that this man is your best friend. You can’t get rid of your best friend over bad sex can you?
Is he your best friend or is he someone who appeared to be your best friend to soften you up and get into your pants?
I’m sure the majority of women agree that a man who is about business in the bedroom doesn’t talk about it.. He instead makes you feel it. He makes you crave it with his body language and the things he does to you.
In most cases when a man finds it necessary to speak upon his sexual performance before the act actually occurs is doing so because in many ways he feels he lacks in that area and really does not have much to offer you. He feels that by getting into your pants he will somehow get you hooked with his bad performance.
It’s been going on for decades. You think by now they would stop. It’s best to not even waste your time with men like this and you have all rights to be utterly disgusted by his whack performance.
Let him go as a friend? NO Should you start a relationship with him? Absolutely not.
Sexual chemistry is very important. No matter how nice or good looking and smart he is eventually the bad sex will start to wear on the relationship. Besides, there is no telling how many other lies and disappointments he will bring you.
What do you think - Should I woman continue with a man who claimed to be able to put the D down but came up short?