16 Nov 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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Subject: Pimpin ain’t easy
Kissy,
I have a question and I don’t wanna feel like i’m the only one that feels this way. Sometimes I feel like it would be so much easier if I had a pimp instead of a boyfriend. A boyfriend will take you through drama and head-games…A pimp will give you the hard-earned money that you worked for without any hassles.
A pimp will make you feel beautiful inside and that your worth the money you worked for. A boyfriend, once he has you where he wants you, ignores you, neglects and takes you for granted.
I’d rather deal with a pimp who takes care of me and makes sure my needs are met. Can you ask you FB fan base how they feel about having a pimp instead of a boyfriend so I can get some type of direction..
Thanks Hennessey
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Dear Hennessey,
I’m just going to give you the straight arrow on pimping. Contrary to what people in that lifestyle say Pimping and H0eing is absolutely not the best thing going.
I understand your frustration with men, the drama, the abuse and the head games that they play. You are thinking that if you had a pimp at least he would be honest about the situation and the things that are going on. You would be aware of the other women and they would not be hidden.
That’s all false. First off you have to pretty much be a wretched person to begin with in order to pimp a woman. You pretty much have to have a narcissistic personality that has a ice box in it. Pimps have no soul. They often may be nice to women they don’t know that well, but are cold and heartless to the girls who work for them.
Vegas is the capital of pimping and hoeing so what I’m about to tell you does not come off the top of my head or assumptions. It’s comes from actually witnessing it.
1. A pimp will make you feel better and tell you, that you are worth the money that you got. He will tell you that you are worth a million dollars. In the beginning. Then later he is going to take your money, call you stupid and have the audacity to call you a broke azz bish.
If you think he is going to let you keep that money you make or even split it in half with you, thenyou have another thing coming. He is going to take all that money and just maybe provide you with your bare needs. He might not even do that. You might find yourself in the house dark because he hasn’t paid the electricity bill although you just handed him thousands of dollars.
He might buy you some Louis Vuitton bags and some nice luxury clothes so that you can attract high quality men. It might seem like he really cares about you while he is doing these things, but it’s not really about you. You are just a employee and he is going to pimp you for the maximum profit possible. But that’s one of those balling pimps. You could get a pimp that takes you to sell your body for $50 and goes out and buys you Air Jordans to wear.
You will not be respected, appreciated or admired under any circumstances.
2. Head games.. You thought the square men you dated played head games with you. Honey the pimp is going to play games with your head on a whole new level. He is going to have you phucked up, twisted and confused. So he too will take you for granted after a while. He will play on your self esteem and slowly decrease it to keep you dependent upon him. He may even treat you worse than the square unappreciattive boyfriends you’ve had.
Now you may do some shopping, popping bottles in the club, living in nice places and riding in luxury cars. You may live that TEMPORARY lifestyle that he keeps all in his name so that he owns it.
And after all that. These men will go out and flirt and have relations with women who do absolutely nothing for them all while you are hard at work making money for him. Your name will no longer be Hennessy, most of the time he will refer to you as B!TCH or H0E.
3. And if that is not bad enough, these men will beat the dog sh!t out of you. Broken arms, black eyes, cutting your hair off, stomping you with the Louis Vuitton shoes that they bought with your hard earned dough. Telling you how stupid you are…. I could go on and on.. Pimps are bad sweetie. Some of them may even beat you to death. You may even decide to kill him after suffering through years of trauma and abuse.
There is no substitute for a good man. Instead of wasting your time, energy, money, body and life away with a pimp, how about you take some time alone. Get to know yourself. Write down a list of qualities that you like in men.
Right now you don’t really care much for money and you don’t care if a guy has money or not. You just want love and to be treated well.
Number one on your list is do not ever deal with a man who does not have a decent source of income.. That is a waste of time. Any man that needs money from you is a waste of time. You would be better off being a gold digger instead of letting some pimp use you up. Don’t let society fool you. Don’t waste any time with a man who can’t do anything for you.
You obviously don’t have a father in your life or much family. So, get to know yourself, develop your skills, figure out what your talents are and try to make a business out of them.
Start looking at women who actually have GOOD MEN in their lives. Get some better friends around you who believe that they too can get a wonderful man. If you are placing yourself around women in the lifestyle of course they are going to be ok with it and pull you into it.
Put it in your head that good men exist and you deserve one. The better of a woman you become the better chance you will have of meeting a great man.. Good men that you actually like are NOT easy to come by. Have some patience and please stay away from pimps. Most importantly seek a MAN. There is a big difference between having a man in your life and having a boyfriend in your life.
Kissy
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“Lost & Turned out !
Is her name Olivia ?
“”PIMPIN” is all wrong, Cuz if u slangin yo a** would’nt you want to keep yo own CASH. Not half or none at all
You went hard on this one
love your advice.
I guess It’s an industry that still thrives threw this economy .
Pimping aint easy.but what i want to know is wheres my money?
Lets get the most……tax them…..
Ratchet
PIMPS ARE HORRIBLE PEOPLE.
Well who's at fault him or her.. I think its a mental conditioning that evol's..11-17
U forgot to tell her the stroll is full of strung out street walkers who sometime get hooked to drugs by her own pimp. And if she thinks he will always be there to bail her out of jail when she gets poped (and she will get poped) he won’t. He will not spend a dime for bail even with money she just made.
If it’s hard out here for a pimp I can only imagine how it is for a H@#… I agree with Bobbie “lost and turned out”
Yes Bobbie Anderson I did forget about tht.. He will let her rot in jail till they let her out and be at the jail door to pick her up.
It’s her body and her choice. I just don’t give a damn.
Why the hell do she need to hand her money to a Pimp or a Man? Stop being Dumb and get out that Mentality.
Some bodies daughter needs guidance..
Somebody needs to read a book cuz a pimp isn’t a good thing. He ives out of you cuz you are a profit for him.
Y’all have some twisted beliefs of what a pimp is how many of u on here know a pimp or lived a pimp life and how many have lived a hoe’s life ? Y’all talkin bout what u see on tv or hear from the next but not one of u took the time to real know plus he that is wit out sin throw the stone second most of us are just a product of are surroundings so unless u know don’t judge to harshly
Low Self-Esteem & No Doubt Didn’t Have A Father Figure In Her Life.
Um DON, you act like they are missing out on something by not knowing??????
she dont need a pimp she need a guide she lost.not every pimp a pimp and not everybody will leave you in the dark.
He don’t know what the fuck I know..! I know a bitch shouldn’t be sellin her pussy to get a mans attention. And a man who encourages a woman even lil girl to Fuk 24/7., even on her period for so his lazy Fuk ass can floss $ to his other broke ass friends…. I’s not a man..!! Not a pimp.. He’s a sick ass predator.. !
Pimpin ain’t like it used to be…the new age pimp will give u a lavish lifestyle, car, vacations and a decent crib. Long gone are the days of standing on the street corner…hoeing has gone to another level!
I think it’s a cop out, to be in a relationship and stay in one takes work, a lot of work but it’s worth it !
I think it’s a cop out, to be in a relationship and stay in one takes work, a lot of work but it’s worth it !
Yes they will SHAMLA .. All in HIS name. The chick walks away with nothing, although it was all financed with her money. These pimps have luxury everything and perfect credit.. But it’s not what people think it is.. It’s all on a Bish! and they mean every word of it.
Yes they will SHAMLA .. All in HIS name. The chick walks away with nothing, although it was all financed with her money. These pimps have luxury everything and perfect credit.. But it’s not what people think it is.. It’s all on a Bish! and they mean every word of it.
Tell that young lady to go sit her worthy self down in church somewhere…. She need spiritual guidance from somebody who will tell her what Jesus would say and has did about that. In the Bible Jesus worked with Mary- a prostitute and a very uneasy woman but by the time He was finished with her she became one of His closest followers and He will definitely work on this young lady on here. #TeamJesus!!
Tell that young lady to go sit her worthy self down in church somewhere…. She need spiritual guidance from somebody who will tell her what Jesus would say and has did about that. In the Bible Jesus worked with Mary- a prostitute and a very uneasy woman but by the time He was finished with her she became one of His closest followers and He will definitely work on this young lady on here. #TeamJesus!!
Her self esteem may actually not be low. She may be just trying to find a relationship that works for her. Although I hope she heeds my warning.. Her life will be disaster if she gets a pimp. Those dudes talk a good game.. A real good game. But those chicks have NOTHING at the end. They toss them to the side, go get a new young chick and start the process all over again. That is why pimps have such health problems when they get older. It’s karma from being so evil.
It’s not like these dudes are really buying these chicks houses and cars in their names. They completely use chicks. All these chicks walk away with his clothes and bags IF that.
Her self esteem may actually not be low. She may be just trying to find a relationship that works for her. Although I hope she heeds my warning.. Her life will be disaster if she gets a pimp. Those dudes talk a good game.. A real good game. But those chicks have NOTHING at the end. They toss them to the side, go get a new young chick and start the process all over again. That is why pimps have such health problems when they get older. It’s karma from being so evil.
It’s not like these dudes are really buying these chicks houses and cars in their names. They completely use chicks. All these chicks walk away with his clothes and bags IF that.
is there a such thing as a nice pimp??
is there a such thing as a nice pimp??
Susanoowop TenJin No-Mikoto Yup!! A broke one.. Those are the nice ones..
She shuld be her own pimp pimps are too expensive they take all your money and just provide housing clothes and food
That’s good
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Tell her dumb ass slavery & human tracking is not good.
I would like to know what makes Don think we don’t know what a “Pimp” is about? Everyone hit it on the head. But her problem is a boyfriend that she is taking care of. Get Rid Of That Zero. He is not your child.
I personally know a couple of girls.They get treated like trash.Dude don’t feed them right,don’t care where they stay,don’t make them get checkups,don’t give them money for personal hygiene products.All he gives them is verbal,mental abuse,and sex.He makes them do all kinds of crap.Stealing,robbing,etc.This dude is so smooth.And they doing it on they own free will..(so they say).He has a fancy home..luxury cars etc.He give them drugs but make them pay for them…smh.He keeps them high,upset,nervous,on the edge,plays a lot of mind games.
I personally know a couple of girls.They get treated like trash.Dude don’t feed them right,don’t care where they stay,don’t make them get checkups,don’t give them money for personal hygiene products.All he gives them is verbal,mental abuse,and sex.He makes them do all kinds of crap.Stealing,robbing,etc.This dude is so smooth.And they doing it on they own free will..(so they say).He has a fancy home..luxury cars etc.He give them drugs but make them pay for them…smh.He keeps them high,upset,nervous,on the edge,plays a lot of mind games.
look baby…ill put you on the team for a trial run..you tell me what you think afterwards
look baby…ill put you on the team for a trial run..you tell me what you think afterwards
Dang Kissy…I’m just reading your article and you know you telling the truth.I was around they pimp for 3yrs and he was nice to me.He brought me breakfast.Always treated me well…he even beat up an abusive boyfriend that yelled at me in front of him.But he did approach me twice about a position(LOL!) I was like no way! He said you would never have to worry about anything.I’m like yeah right that’s probably what he told the other girls.
Dang Kissy…I’m just reading your article and you know you telling the truth.I was around they pimp for 3yrs and he was nice to me.He brought me breakfast.Always treated me well…he even beat up an abusive boyfriend that yelled at me in front of him.But he did approach me twice about a position(LOL!) I was like no way! He said you would never have to worry about anything.I’m like yeah right that’s probably what he told the other girls.
Dont leave out how all the hoes will have the same babydaddy…. him!! And guess how all the sons (brothers) will grow up and treat they mommas and women who might love them oneday…. like daddy do…smdh #TeamChuuuch!!
Dont leave out how all the hoes will have the same babydaddy…. him!! And guess how all the sons (brothers) will grow up and treat they mommas and women who might love them oneday…. like daddy do…smdh #TeamChuuuch!!
Miss kissy you know i feel you boo…but at this shit aint gonna stop.. no lol i aint jokeing around this been here in aint goin know where..ppl goin hard for one.. when there are many ladies if the wanna call they self a lady after they disrespect that god givein body..shame on her..but it is what it is rite cant change what is gonna happen now then in latter on down the line..yall dig…
Miss kissy you know i feel you boo…but at this shit aint gonna stop.. no lol i aint jokeing around this been here in aint goin know where..ppl goin hard for one.. when there are many ladies if the wanna call they self a lady after they disrespect that god givein body..shame on her..but it is what it is rite cant change what is gonna happen now then in latter on down the line..yall dig…
Know disrespect to the one’s that need those funds for the shit they done…they gonna call you what it is…pimp’s carry ho’s…not ladies….plan in simple thats what it is…she’ a ho….
Know disrespect to the one’s that need those funds for the shit they done…they gonna call you what it is…pimp’s carry ho’s…not ladies….plan in simple thats what it is…she’ a ho….
Know disrespect to the one’s that need those funds for the shit they done…they gonna call you what it is…pimp’s carry ho’s…not ladies….plan in simple thats what it is…she’ a ho….
@sharneece-well who gon protect yo ass when u slinging it….it goes hand/hand…..bt its yo body, do what the hell u want wt it-obviously-
She should lose that zero & get herself a hero should also not get a pimp either.
God said pray and it shall be given unto you, ask God for guidance and understanding! Believe in him and trust that he loves you more than the flesh here on earth, let him be your rock and your salvation! He won’t let you down and he definitely won’t abandon you ….
Pimps use god to manipulate too.. Look at bishop
That shit is sick and crazy why don’t u broke nothing ass pimps get a real job a real man provides for his family not survive off a hoe ..real bitches should pimp u dumb men it’s real out here . U losers have not been raised by a real women it takes a real strong women to raise a good strong man that shit is dead and playd out i wish a pimp would approach me with that week ass shit ill have a pimp pimped and beat up.
Dat girl needs family and God before she ends up beat up or affected with sum to kill her.
now, im not one to hate on anybodys hustle, but some shit is just uncalled for. she has unresolved daddy issues that need to be addressed by a professional. and on some real shit, they need to find a Diety, whether it be God, Allah, Buddah, Jehova or what ever speaks to them, cause their empty. and most of them, their parents and the people around them dont give a fuck cause if they did, if she knew that someone truly cared, she wouldnt feel as though that her vagina is the only way someone will be close to her.
I like what kissy said in response t the question. I like that part about she is better off being a golddigger…
Both females & males exist as their titles suggest:pimps & whores cause that climate allows such.. its a personal inner thing transforming.. I ve seen and heard all the good & bad..11-17
IM A PIMP, FAR FROM WHAT YOU EXPLAINED A PIMP TO BE….UNLESS YOUVE BEEN IN THE LIFESTYLE, HOW WOULD YOU ACTUALLY KNOW.
IM A PIMP, FAR FROM WHAT YOU EXPLAINED A PIMP TO BE….UNLESS YOUVE BEEN IN THE LIFESTYLE, HOW WOULD YOU ACTUALLY KNOW.
To the Pimp.. You’re heartless to even lead a girl in that direction
LMAO
Yea that's real u don't need a pimp u need a man & a good career don't think that hoeing 's going to pay the bills na your pimp is gon keep that buy some clothes shoes & Gucci & u aint getting shit but some shampoo & conditioner oh u was hungry to he's starte to mcdonalds, if really interested in doing that do it for yourself
To all the prostitutes on here hating pimps well isn’t this a case of throwing stones while you are living in a glass house? Don’t you seduce, act, lie and manipulate men for money and most of them are married? You have sex with hundreds and even thousands of men for money. Do you care if you break up a married man’s family and take his money away from him, his wife and family? No you don’t because you are just a money grubbing, greedy, selfish whore. The pimp is by no means an angel but it is very rare that you are forced to be a prostitute by a pimp in the USA. It is even more rare that a pimp puts a woman on drugs like crack or heroin. Because if she is a crackhead or addict the cost of her habit will cut into a pimps profit. So the prostitutes who are with pimps are almost always seduced by the pimps charm, verbal skills and swagger. In a lot of cases if not most you are physically attracted to the pimp and like having sex with him. Sounds like he is manipulating and exploiting you the same way you do it to the johns lol. He is a whore for whores. It is poetic justice if you ask me. You get over on every other man but the pimp and that is why you hate him. You say a pimp should get a real job and is lazy? Well why don’t you get a real job? The pimp exploits those who exploits others specifically whores he is harmless to anyone else. A pimp can only pimp one type of woman which is a whore. If a woman is not already a whore in her heart or a whore waiting to happen she cannot be “turned out”. Plus what man would want to have a woman, wife or girlfirend who is a whore but a pimp? It seem like the two of you were made for each other. Exploiters and bloodsuckers like two vampires. So you have no right to hate pimps because you are just as guilty of being an exploiter yourself. I have no sympathy for you because you prostitutes who bad mouth pimps are the worst type of hypocrites. You want to con the general public into having sympathy for your whoring ways by using the pimps and even the johns in some cases as the scapegoats who “corrupted you”. That is a total farce. You are an adult and you are responsible for your decisions. Stop lying to yourselves that you are a good person and you are performing some sort of public service because YOU ARE NOT. You are a whore and a disgrace that almost all of society has nothing but contempt for that even includes most of your johns. Get a real job and stop seducing, exploiting and taking advantage of weak men and johns for money instead of crying like a whining, spoiled child about the “big bad pimp” taking money from you or your fellow sluts and that money doesn’t even really belong to any of you. Blame yourself no one else for your predicament you are not a victim, you are a predator and a whore. If the pimp is a villain then so is the whore.