The majority of all relationships eventually come to an end.. Very few actually withstand the test of time. Some relationships end because it’s just time.. People fall in and out of love.. They really can’t help who they love and when the love starts to fade. It’s just a harsh reality of life.
But some relationships were doomed from the very start. They suddenly came to an end which comes as quite a shock to one person in the relationship. However there were clear signs from the very beginning that they just weren’t into you. They simply waited until they got tired of you to tell you. Most people won’t admit the truth to someone until after they truly become unhappy and can’t take it anymore. People actually deem themselves being polite by not telling you their true intentions with you or by not admitting to not being that into you.
The thing about a relationship is that when someone really wants to be with you they desire and aspire to do things in order to make their mate happy.. They don’t have to lose themselves in their mate, but the happinesss of their mate is of the upmost importance to them.
These days people tell you to get married and have kids.. Something has to be wrong with you if you’re not married with kids society says.. So often times in the pursuit of the American Dream, some people end up in relationships with people that aren’t really into them.. Getting someone to marry you is actually not a difficult thing to do. It’s one thing to marry a person for the idea of what they stand for and another to marry a person because you feel so blissful around them and just can’t imagine your life without them.
How many times do you hear people say they want a mate that wants them but doesn’t need them?? These are people who have clearly never experienced love in it’s purest form.. Love is a loose cousin of insanity. When you are truly in love you literally do need that person for the emotional high’s they give you. You need them as a best friend. Their presence in your life makes life so beautiful. It cleanses your platate of all your past bad relationships. It makes you thankful that none of the previous ones worked out.. Cause the person in front of you was sent to you by God, they were made perfectly and just for you.. That’s LOVE at it’s height.
If that’s not what you feel then you are in a relationship that is based upon the idea of something.. It’s not based off of love and admiration.. A man that says he loves that his woman wants to be with him and doesn’t need him is in love with the idea that his wife is an independent woman and he doesn’t have to do everything financially for her. But the thing about love is that you can be somewhat sane in it as to not let your emotions completely control you, but like I said when you are in love you desire to aide in a person’s happiness..
People want to get married, people want to have a baby, but their mate doesn’t want to. Those are clear signs that a person is not truly in love with you. The more a person tells you no the less they love you. Having a child is a serious thing and so is marriage. But the thing is that although a person is telling you no, or wait till later what you don’t realize is that later on in that person’s life when they truly fall in love and meet the right person they will say YES to that person.. They weren’t into you.. That’s what those no’s should have told you.
If a man enjoys seeing a woman working hard he’s not that into her. The feeling of real love requires that you want to reach out and make your mates life easier.
So while everyone is jumping in and out of relationships maybe it’s time to take a step back and analyze if your mate is truly in love with you or the idea of what you stand for. People will make all types of excuses as to why they don’t want to do something with you but NO is NO.. You would be better off accepting one too many no’s or a no show as a person just not being into you. Stop wondering..
Remember LOVE will bend over backwards just to please you. And stop listening to those lines when a person tells you “They are emotionally unavailable” right now. If a person is emotionally unavailable they shouldn’t be dating. Don’t wait around while they use you as their therapy session. Believe me they will be available as soon as the right person comes along.
10 Signs That A Man Is Not That Into you. FLIP the page.
Most clebs have gotten quite used to being killed off on Twitter.. KeKe Palmer just got her first taste of a Twitter Death and she was not amused at all.
The actress let her fans know that she is alright after a fake CNN tweet hit the web notifying the public of the actress’ supposed untimely death.
KeKe went off on a twitter rant
And kept going…
These rumors are not funny and they are also very mean.
Lamar Odom arrived in Dallas on Dec. 14. His head and heart never left Los Angeles. Now Odom must also say goodbye to Dallas-Fort Worth, Texas. Following Saturday’s 94-89 loss at Memphis Mavs owner Mark Cuban and coach Rick Carlisle have decided to bench Lam Lam for the entire season.
Odom’s mind was not on basketball throughout the offseason due to an emotionally difficult summer in his private life. He fell into a deeper mental funk when the Lakers tried to trade him to New Orleans in the proposed blockbuster deal forChris Paul. Odom admitted he didn’t train or work on his game. He contemplated not even playing this season. The Lakers surely knew this about last season’s Sixth Man of the Year. Should the Mavs have looked deeper before pulling the trigger?
Maybe. But that’s in the past, and now the Mavs (31-26 and seventh in the West) have only nine games in front of them to get their act together, get in the playoffs and do their best to defend their title.
Removing Odom from the locker room should provide at the least a collective exhale and a clearing of the air. There will be no questions about him, no more trying to defend him when his body language on and off the court told the whole story for all to see.
At 6’10″ Dallas thought Lamar would be versatile on the court, they certainly tried to make it work. The club continually opted for positive reinforcement, it tried to pump up his career-low statistics and pointed to the team’s 0-7 mark without Odom as a reason to keep him on board, if only to provide minute relief for Dirk Nowitzki. But the situation was going the wrong way.
But Odom continually said he wasn’t comfortable playing so much small forward, a position he never played with the Lakers in his seven seasons. With Nowitzki, Odom’s preferred power forward position was taken.
Now Dallas will focus on getting into the playoffs.
This was a move that had to be made. Odom clearly left his head and his heart in L.A.
Lamar said in a statement today:
“The Mavericks and I have mutually agreed that it’s in the best interest of both parties for me to step away from the team.
“I’m sorry that things didn’t work out better for both of us, but I wish the Mavs’ organization, my teammates and Dallas fans nothing but continued success in the defense of their championship.”
Details on Lam’s depature were worked on on Easter.
Odom’s departure will be immediate and that the Mavericks intend to simply list him as inactive for the rest of the season instead of outright releasing him, leaving open the possibility that they could still trade him after the season in conjunction with the draft. Any team that has Odom on its roster as of June 29 must buy him out by that date for $2.4 million or otherwise accept responsibility for the full $8.2 million that Odom is scheduled to earn in 2012-13.
Now Lam Lam has time to head back to L.A. to Keep Up With Kardashians and woo his wife Khloe on tv.. The poor man is losing and doesn’t realize it.. His wife can’t have a baby, his team isn’t working out and he had to leave L.A.. Maybe it’s time for Lam to cut his losses.. Sometimes you can’t force things to work.. Sometimes it’s just not meant to be.. One must follow the signs.
Lil Wayne‘s entourage spat in a photog’s face, pushed him to the ground in the rain, then beat the crap out of his bicycle — this according to a police report filed last week in Miami.
According to the report, the photog spotted Wayne and his entourage skateboarding outside some church — right beside a “no skateboarding” sign — so he decided to take a few pics.
The photog claims Wayne and his boys packed it in after it started to rain — so he followed the group to their car, snapping pics along the way.
According to the report, Weezy didn’t much like the attention (as you can see in the video) — so he ordered his goons to take the man’s camera … at which point roughly eight men surrounded him, and intimidated him into deleting several of his photos.
The photog claims it didn’t end there — insisting one of Wayne’s dudes spat on him, while another pushed him to the ground. The photog says the group also beat his bicycle with a skateboard.
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The photog eventually broke free — and made a beeline straight for the Miami Beach Police Station, where he filed the report.
Wayne was so upset that he asked a group of people who were about to step in “What Were They Going to Do” as if it would be some more drama if they would have stepped him to help the photographer?
Three months after delivering the 2Nd MOST POPULAR BABY in the history of the world (right after Jesus Christ) THE CARTER FAMILY jetted off to ST. BARTS to teach lil BLUE IVY how to live that CHAMPAGNE LIFE.
For the Easter holiday weekend Beyonce, Jay Z and baby Blue spent time aboard a luxurious yacht off the coast of St. Barts. (Saint Barthelemy or St. Barts is in the Caribbean located near the islands of Saint Martin, Anguilla and Saba. It is approximately 250 km east of Puerto Rico and is an overseas collectivity of France. St. Barts is known for having beautiful beaches and a wonderful tropical climate.)
This would be Blue’s very first trip out of the country. Bey held her precious cargo very close to her underneath a thick blanket as to shield her from the hot son and the paparazzi view.
Far away from the chilly breeze of Brooklyn, the pair held hands as they strolled along, looking happy and relaxed as they soaked up some of that tropical sunshine.
Bey still looking thick and toned after dropping the baby weight rocked a pretty paisley kaftan, worn over a blue swimsuit, which she paired with a striped bag and metallic sandals.
The 30-year-old star accessorised her outfit with sunglasses and a large pair of hoop earrings, wearing her streaked, light brown hair piled high in a bun on top of her head.
Meanwhile, Jay-Z took a break from wearing full jean jacket suits and timbaland boots in exchange for khakis and a soft blue shirt which he rocked unbottoned along with a pair of cream plimsoll-type shoes.
Reportedly the power couple renewed their wedding vows in celebration of their fourth anniversary earlier this week.
Toast to the Champagne Life. More photos of the family excursion below.
Evelyn Lozada is such a kind hearted person.. Not only did she host at the G5 stripclub in MIAMI over the weekend she also dropped two stacks of racks on the strippers to help them buy their kids some new school clothes. One George Washington at a time the feisty Puerto Rican Basketball Wife made a difference in her community.
Unlike the men, ya girl Ev tricks off in style too. She rocked a fat smile, pink lip stick with a lil gloss and some Louboutin pumps the entire evening.
She’s going to make a great wife for Ocho. Most blogs would tell you the pics below aren’t work safe, but I’m not telling you sh@t.. You did see the word “stripper” in the title didn’t you.. Check the Flicks Courtesy of TMZ below.
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