So this guy Ken Ro, sent me a link to this video..
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After watching it I had to deem this as unrealistic. But truth is women really do pick mates like this.
This lady has her right to have her personal likes and dislikes. She made her winner and loser judgements based upon a few words. She turned down the geek who said he was studying to be a screen writer. Looks wise I would of gave him the loser card, job wise I would have given him the winner card. But he can only get one card so he would have received the loser card.
The tall black guy happened to help disabled kids.. Okay, so he has a heart of gold. That doesn’t mean a woman is going to be attracted to him. While shows like this are indeed entertaining I believe that they add to the American publics already false perceptions and fallacies on who and how they should date.
NO, it’s not ok to date the nice guy just because he is nice and has a good heart. So many women do just that and end up mistreating and dogging out the nice guy. Why? Because she really is not attracted to him. She choose him because he is a nice stable guy.. Who doesn’t want a nice, stable guy?
Good men often times are left thinking that women make bad decisions and that they are missing out by not choosing them. That is not true. Had she picked you solely based upon your niceness she would not cater to you and give you the love that you deserve as a human being.
Over time her charm and slight affection for you would wear off. See, the majority of humans are attracted to people 1st by physical attraction. A lot of people fail to understand this rule of reality that I deem common sense so they end up making statements that women are SHALLOW. They tell their buddies that women just don’t like nice guys.
Those who choose mates simply because they are nice actually have low self esteem which results in very low standards. Do you really want someone picking you based upon their “He will do” factor?
We all have hormones and certain things that turn us on. It takes several things to keep a long lasting relationship. People who are simply willing to settle for someone because they are nice or stable are just as bad as people who are mean. Both simply choose mates and use them for thier goodness.
So the next time someone doesn’t pick you, please by all means don’t think they are losing out. You may have just dodged a bullet. People can not help who they are attracted to. You want someone who is picky, someone who knows what they want and desire. You want a mate who picks a mate based upon their long term ability to be happy with that person.. You do not want a woman picking you based upon you being able to fulfill their current void. Rather that void be financial, emotional or other things.
Fulfilling a void is a good way to get into someone’s life and allow them to get to know you. It should not be the sole reason they choose you as a mate.
Good people have to learn how to pick a mate that actually appreciates their goodness and is also mentally, physically AND sexually attracted to them. Good men think women don’t like them but truth be told a good man has a higher chance of being picked by a woman who won’t appreciate him in the long run. So stop letting these women pick you. You are supposed to pick them. Raise your standards, look currently presentable and go after the woman that you really want. After you get her attention make sure that she is really into you. DO NOT get so caught up in your feelings for her that you fail to realize she may not be that into you.
Before I go I’m going to use the 10 second rule in the video to show you how people can look the exact same and how the word SWAG that you hate actually plays into a woman picking a mate. CLICK HERE for that article.
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I’m a damn good man. And im singe because I am enjoying the hell out of my prime lol.
I’m a damn good man. And im singe because I am enjoying the hell out of my prime lol.
Cuz I make terrible decisions in women.
Cuz I make terrible decisions in women.
its the girls fault everytime lol
its the girls fault everytime lol
All guys aren’t the same but they have dat same mentality dat makes them end up single.
All guys aren’t the same but they have dat same mentality dat makes them end up single.
Lol at shaun. THats rite. Options. Lol. Sum good men/women run in and outta relationships so much because they are in them with the wrong ppl. I’m a good woman and got divorced. So someones marital status doesnt make them good or not so good….
Lol at shaun. THats rite. Options. Lol. Sum good men/women run in and outta relationships so much because they are in them with the wrong ppl. I’m a good woman and got divorced. So someones marital status doesnt make them good or not so good….
Damn I had this “friend” that I was attracted to and wanted to get to know more. Long story short she got with this other kat and I won’t hate on him but he has mad kids out there he doesn’t take care of. So when he knocked her up and dumped her I was honey baby and all that BS that I did fall for. Now I got a great woman!!! Great article!
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I really like this article and it’s on point.
Great piece and I agree with just about everything you posted on your website. It’s a few things I disagreed with but it doesn’t warrant a feedback from me. Continue to keep it positive!
Good man yay okay. Maybe the begining they r til the start beatin u n cheatin n bein straight whores while have a good girl who would do any thing. N they too caught up chasin pussy smuts n fuckin a whore in ur house while ur pregnant n sleeping. n they go to bed every night cuddling his phone rather then u. Well thats my opinion n u posted this when i’m pissed. So show me a good guy n I’ll show u there is no such thing.
Haven’t read the article, but that 10 sec rule video-Nice!
wow. I need to watch this show. The female in the video judged dudes right off the bat and ended up with guys that are even more shallow. She wasn’t ‘looking’…
I’m a good man…just tired of women trying to control a brother…not good
I’m single cuz of bad choices but I’m a good man. This lady who tested her made her realize that she prefer guys who are good looking but has things that would be a mistake to her if she doesn’t asks the right question. Knowing the person helps connect the relationship better.
Oh its like most men dont know what they want… They get good women but its hard to belive to them, they love the run around type and the excitement. And a few of us good woman r out there but wont stand for bullsh**
Because I refuse settle for less….then best…some of these woman want Dogs for Man…that’s happen here upper middle class….I deserve better….sheesh….lml
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A gift you indeed have your majesty. Great article like all that was said very to the point. Love the book plug nicccce!!!!! Like the stage brake down on swag. Impressive.
A gift you indeed have your majesty. Great article like all that was said very to the point. Love the book plug nicccce!!!!! Like the stage brake down on swag. Impressive.
A gift you indeed have your majesty. Great article like all that was said very to the point. Love the book plug nicccce!!!!! Like the stage brake down on swag. Impressive.
A gift you indeed have your majesty. Great article like all that was said very to the point. Love the book plug nicccce!!!!! Like the stage brake down on swag. Impressive.
A gift you indeed have your majesty. Great article like all that was said very to the point. Love the book plug nicccce!!!!! Like the stage brake down on swag. Impressive.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
Cool, You read both articles Brenton M Graham KISSES and Thank You for your constant, tremendous support.
im a good man and im single because i dont need the headache!
im a good man and im single because i dont need the headache!
I’m more concern about eradicating white supremacy, sexism, homophobia, suicide among my fellow infantrymen, AmeriKKKan rampant and illegal war mongering than I am about being “non -single.”
Further, I rather focus my energies on becoming more sapient within my academic fields, honing my artistic crafts, and essentially any thing that will further the improvement of humanity than I am about having a status as “In a relationship.”
I’m more concern about eradicating white supremacy, sexism, homophobia, suicide among my fellow infantrymen, AmeriKKKan rampant and illegal war mongering than I am about being “non -single.”
Further, I rather focus my energies on becoming more sapient within my academic fields, honing my artistic crafts, and essentially any thing that will further the improvement of humanity than I am about having a status as “In a relationship.”
Your more then welcome. What can I say imma sucker for knowledgeable information. My support you always have your majesty
much <3
Because I didn’t meet yet a comprehensible woman with a tender heart, but still hoping to get me one for life in 2012. Yeah! Who knows perhaps through social network? I hate being single Kissy!
i ju$T cant be with anybody rite because they wont me 2 do everything and god will bless me with a gud women in 2013 I am do me for rite now
Dana it’s your fault yuh picked a man like that. Don’t blame every guy in the world for your bad decisions.
I’m single because all women are beautiful so it’s hard to choose wich one I’d rather be with when they all look better than the next!
Just cuz I’m single doesn’t mean I’m confused or Imma fuck up!
All it means is u have something I’m not ready for. But don’t judge me for it!
I agree with the fact that attraction and chemistry is more important than being nice. It makes for long winter nights if just together for niceness. And waiting to purchase your book.
I agree with the fact that attraction and chemistry is more important than being nice. It makes for long winter nights if just together for niceness. And waiting to purchase your book.
@Dana Allen – that’s nit a good guy that’s a moron, don’t give up cuz of a bad experience. All the best.
@Dana Allen – that’s nit a good guy that’s a moron, don’t give up cuz of a bad experience. All the best.
@Dana Allen – that’s nit a good guy that’s a moron, don’t give up cuz of a bad experience. All the best.
And other thing we have 2 be on the same page if she wont the samething i wont and i will be with her if not on two the next female there 1 And billion females out here they wont a good man we are getting 2 old 2 be playing around what u think
Always on point! I think you have an execellent sense of what it is that most good men have to deal with! I am currently putting all of those things into action and I've notice a marked improvement in the type of woman I would even consider dating, taken charge and not allowing anyone that does not understand this to be apart of my life! As a result, I have met someone who I believe is on the same page and I look forward to the future with her if all goes well, let it take time and the rewards will be great! Its 2012, the sky is the limit! Keep it up girl!
Always on point! I think you have an execellent sense of what it is that most good men have to deal with! I am currently putting all of those things into action and I’ve notice a marked improvement in the type of woman I would even consider dating, taken charge and not allowing anyone that does not understand this to be apart of my life! As a result, I have met someone who I believe is on the same page and I look forward to the future with her if all goes well, let it take time and the rewards will be great! Its 2012, the sky is the limit! Keep it up girl!
When u have a bad experience then its hard to trust again especially when ur bad experience was ur best friend of ten years. I know I shouldnt blame every guy for one guys screw ups. But ur ex does screw it up for the next.
Double LIKE.
It’s also hard to find a companion after you become a widow. Men tend to move on and find another but women find it harder due to some men are looking for an opportunity to capitalize on her emotions in the wrong way… It’s hard looking for a companion when you still look young and attrractive but you’re over 40!
Bcz she is bitch.
Bcz she is bitch.
Bcz she is bitch.
Bcz she is bitch.
thats easy I wanna keep my millions..