It’s complicated huh? What’s so complicated about realizing it’s just not working! There is no such thing as a complicated relationship. If you are not happy perhaps it’s time to consider a break-up. It sounds simple enough right. But apparently it’s not. How many times have you read someone’s facebook profile and saw the “It’s Complicated” as their relationship status? What does that mean? You are obviously not happy. Is it a sign to let people know that you are open for cheating?
It’s actually a sign that you are confused and not good at making solid decisions. If you have literally crossed the line from just thinking you are unhappy to actually writing it out for the world to see, then why not do something about it? What are you waiting on?
Does that mean you are in a relationship and you love your girl but she refuses to have sex with you? Let me help you out. LET HER GO. Does it mean your’re in a relationship with a man and you love him but he constantly refers to you as b!tch and hoe meanwhile he’s out chasing skirts.. Let me help you out. LET HIM GO!
Now if complicated means you are sitting at home alone while your man is out working hard, conquering the world so that he can provide you with the finer things in life you’re just an unappreciative bish.. Get a job and then you understand and have less time to feel so “complicated”.
Rarely do these status ever involve the it’s cheaper her to keep her situation.. I can totally understand the “it’s complicated when finances are involved.
Then we have the most popular kind of “complicated” relationship.. We are not getting along that well, but we are trying to work it out.. Too many people try to force themselves to be with a certain person.. Either it works or it doesn’t..
Believe it or not it does not take hard work being with someone who you are really into who also carries the same level of affection for you. Relationships are hard work because people enter into relationship that they shouldn’t be in for temporary wants and needs that once fulfilled they realize they’re really not that into their mate. At this point being with someone else would be much less “complicated”.
Society seems to think that they have all the time in the world. It’s crazy how people know that the average human life spans less than 100 years, yet people seem so willing to spend years of their life with people that make them unhappy. What’s the point? A person either makes you happy and cares for you or they don’t. There is no inbetweens unless you are only in it for the green.. Decide what you want in a relationship and go after it. If someone is aware of what you like and fails to maintain then they have failed to keep up their oral or written end contract. Which is permission for guilt free termination.
When you are in love, it’s strong. You want to make the other person happy and when it’s gone, it’s gone. Stop waiting around for someone to treat you like they love you. Let Go.
It’s wise to stay away from complicated types of people.. They can’t make solid decisions. They need someone to push them close to the ledge first.. Who wants someone like that?
So tell me, why are you in a “complicated” relationship?
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Why do people stay in complicated relationships?
they putting up with their partners shit
Either your A Boo or A jump off no in between
They Become Comfortable or FEAR To Be Alone…
Some ppl can't handle being lonely…
Kids or low self esteem
All the above.
They think they can change a person by staying "loyal" and time keeps ticking away smh
It's not because sum men / women think they have no other option but to stay in a not so happy relationship or they are just scrried to move on to something new sum people just settle for Whats there I think its a controll thing either they have kids or low self-esteem and make that there only reason to stay, me if I'm not happy I'm gone no matter what and I think everyone should do the same , some women can't stand to see their so calld MAN with sumone else or be damed if he changes for sumone else either way Shit gets old and people like excitement that's why men cheat Probley because she bitches a lot and don't do Shit to herself or don't have her own life ,being away sometimes makes ur mate miss and want u more who wants sumone up ur ass all day every day doing the same old Shit gets boring .if he can't miss u he won't want u as much a man wants a good women with goals and a career .u won't see a man puting complicated on their profile they just cheat or leave lol.
Because LOVE is complicated.
denial
denial and procrastination
For women: baby daddy is still getting it while he has another women. For men: their having sex with their baby momma but telling their new girl their not.
Richard Douglas hit it on the head
The only reason I’m in a complicated relationship is because it’s long distance lol. *sigh*